Tuesday, October 18, 2011

How Not To Behave On A First Date

Watch The Time
This goes out to people of both the sexes – value punctuality and be on time. Remember that it is not the duty of either of you to wait for the other. Keeping peoplewaiting is as good as taking them for granted, and if you take the person you’re dating for the first time for granted, it is not a good sign.It is rude and unprofessional to take someone’s time for granted and arrive at your own sweet time. If something’s holding you back or preventing you from reachingon time,have the decency to call up and tell your date thatyou shall be late and apologise sincerely. Such an attitude will show that you had no intention of being lateor wasting your date’s time.
I, Me, Myself
You may think of yourself as God’s gift to humanity, to mankind or to womankind, butyour date need not know this. People like dates to be fun and they expect the dateto end on a positive note – one that paves way for manydates.If you show enough interest in the other person, your interest is bound to be reciprocated, but if all you are concerned about and talking about is your own selfthen your date is sure to feelout of place and not to mention bored.Seriously, if you love yourself so much, why not just go on a date with your own self, that way you will not be bored of talking about yourself. All youneed to do in that case is carry a mirror!On a more serious note, it is best to keep information flowing fromboth corners – ask your date questions about their lives without being too interrogative or behaving like a voyeur.
Guzzly Bear
Though it is best not to go for the first date to a pub or to drink, if you can keep it under control, it is perfectly fine. This advice goes out to men – do not take your dates to those sports bars where burly men guzzle beerand watch football or any other sport.It is best for either of the sexes not to drink too much or else you lose your chances of being on another date with a potentially wonderful person – your date. No one likes to date a person who easily offshoots his or her limits and cannot hold a drink whenon a date.

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